5 items every bariatric surgery patient should have in their arsenal

Ever since I started this journey to better health, I’ve come to rely on a few items to make sure that I feel good all the time. They help me all the time and I think they could work for you as well.

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This is what helps me stay on track. Hope it helps you as well! (Photo by Bruno Nascimento on Unsplash)
  1. Oatly Oatmilk – Even before I had my gastric sleeve operation, I had problems with lactose intolerance. Oatly is what gets me through most days. I can have it in my cereal, in my coffee, even in my mashed potatoes. I think it tastes better than “normal” milk and it has the added bonus of not making me feel ill.
  2. Skinnytaste meal plans – I don’t use them every week, but I use them often enough that I know Gina’s recipes are awesome. Some of my favourites include honey sriracha chicken and broccoli bowls, braised chicken thighs with mushrooms and leeks, corn, tomato and avocado salad, and fish florentine.
  3. A water bottle – Granted, mine is the model that H&M was selling around two years ago, but this one is ideal as well. It’s how I make sure I reach my daily water goal. I fill it every morning and sip on it until it’s empty, refill it. Repeat. Our surgeons and nutritionists know what they’re talking about when they warn about dehydration.
  4. A good pair of sneakers – I’ve been using Nike React the last few months and they’re super comfortable. What’s most important is that you find a pair that work for your feet and that make you want to walk and get those steps in every day.
  5. StepsApp (or something similar) – How do I make sure I get my steps in every day? My StepsApp. If you prefer another app, go for it. But this is the one that keeps me on top of my daily step goal.

So these are five things that I feel like I can’t be without in order to reach my goal. What about you? What are you doing to stay on top of things post-operation?

Catching up – March edition

It’s been a long time since I posted. Some of you know already why. My brother died on January 2nd and it really threw me for a loop. Close to three months later and I am still feeling a little lost and just going through the days, heading to my freelance projects and doing what needs to be done, but not really feeling completely like myself.

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Soon I will be in Matera again. Hopefully, it will help me feel whole again as a person and a writer as it did after my dad’s death. 

But a few things are happening that at least give me something to look forward to. First, I am going to Matera, Italy for a writer’s retreat 10-15 April. I can’t wait. I need to be in the company of writers, I need to be in Matera and feel the love and warmth of that wonderful town. I have not written a word of fiction since my brother died and I feel incomplete not being able to write fiction.

And in May I will celebrate 20 years of being married to my wonderful guy. Just think: we started off as that couple everyone thought would only be a summer fling. We’ve been together as a couple now since 1993 and got married in 1999. And I absolutely adore him.

Weightwise, I am in a stall and I am not stressing about it. I know that, since January, I have not always been as vigilant about what I eat as I should be. However, my clothes continue to feel looser so my body is still redistributing things. I am getting back on track though. And I am hoping that now that I am seeing a grief counselor to deal with my brother’s passing that this will help me regain the structure I’ve lost.

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Friday lunch at Pom & Flora on Odengatan in Vasatan, Stockholm

One thing though that makes me happy is that I am only around 15 pounds from my goal weight. And I feel good physically, even if mentally I feel a mess. One thing at least that has made me happy is discovering Turmeric Tonic at Pom & Flora, a café here in Stockholm. It was zingy (thanks to the ginger in it) and not too sweet. And today’s lunch–Thai style vegan sweet potato soup with chickpeas and glass noodles–was delicious!

So, no, I have not forgotten about my blog…I’ve just been dealing with my own emotions and trying to come to grips with the fact that one of my favorite people in the world–my younger brother–is no longer with us.

Bear with me. I promise I will be back to normal soonish.

Catching up: I know…it’s been a while

I know…it’s been a while

It’s been a long time since I updated here, and I am sorry for that. Life got in the way.  After a stressful spring, a somewhat restful summer that inevitably became yet another stressful autumn, I decided I’d had enough. It culminated in me deciding to resign from my position and focus on freelancing and fiction writing again. This is my first week of writing full-time and so far, so good. I am still open to finding another full-time job, but right now I am enjoying being in charge of my own time and being able to choose the projects that I work on and the people I work with.

How am I doing?

How am I doing? Update

I’m getting there… 🙂

My weight loss has been a bit slower than I’d expected, but I expect some of this was due to the stress I was under and not having enough time to exercise as I should. Now that I am freelancing, I have more space in my schedule and I’ve already booked two yoga passes for this week and gone on two long walks. Next week, I’ll be returning to strength training.

Back to meal planning

Another good thing about working from home is that I can focus on planning my meals again. I lost focus of it during the summer and never really got back into it. I started again last weekend and made Skinnytaste’s turkey meatball stroganoff (though I substituted chicken for turkey since my local supermarket was out of ground turkey) in my slow cooker. If you haven’t tried this recipe, you really should! It’s delicious.

I’ve already got a few dishes planned for next week:

Buying winter clothes

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My new winter parka (Photo: lindex.com)

Since I’ve lost quite a lot of weight, most of my winter clothes are now too big. I was hoping I could continue using the same winter coat (which I bought last year at H&M and loved) but it fits like a sack now. I’ve added it to the donation bag, along with an autumn-weather coat I purchased a few years ago from ASOS, and several pairs of jeans that are in excellent condition but that slide off my hips now.

Yesterday I went to H&M to look for another winter coat. I tried on three, but none of them really spoke to me and said they wanted to follow me home. I ended up going to Lindex and found a green parka that looks exactly like the one I’m donating. Plus, it’s got sherpa fleece in the hood and lining. I love it! 🙂

I also stocked up on socks, since you can never have too many pairs of socks.

I’ve already got two pairs of great winter boots, so I don’t need to worry about those. But I need to find some thicker pull-on pants for the weekends and another pair of jeans. That’s a project for next week.

And how are you?

How’s it going for you? Have you reached your next major weight loss goal following surgery? Hit a stall? Or what’s your favourite workout? Drop me a line! 🙂 I am still trying to figure out what mine is (or will be) any tips you have will make me a very happy camper.

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